Use these tips to help you talk to your parent about the future during the early stage of Alzheimer’s disease:
- Be upfront and clear with them. Avoid “sugar coating” or “beating around the bush” with these issues. It is very important to be straightforward and emphasize the significance of these issues so that you can discuss them clearly.
- Be honest with your parent not just about the challenges that are coming, but also about your own emotions. This will give your parent confidence and let them know that you are there for them and ready to help them in all the ways that you can.
- Encourage your parent to express themselves fully. Give them plenty of time to talk and welcome all of their thoughts, opinions, and concerns. Do your best to do more listening than talking.
- Address each of their concerns clearly and specifically. If needed, set a time to talk to their doctor about these concerns so that they can give your parent more thorough answers.
- Focus on the benefits and the “good” rather than the challenges. Talk about the benefits of establishing senior care, how you are going to make sure that they are able to remain as active and independent as possible, and plans you have for making meaningful memories moving forward.
- Emphasize that this is the time when they will have the best opportunity to make their thoughts and wishes known. Encourage them to acknowledge that future stages will bring with them cognitive challenges that will make these decisions much more difficult, and talking about them now will make it possible to set plans in the best way possible.
- Talk about how valuable this is for you. Remind them that you will be the one who must make these decisions in the future and that you want to make sure that you do what is right for them. Tell them that every plan that they make now will help to reduce your stress and anxiety in the future, and that you want to know that you are doing right by them when this difficult time comes.
Starting senior care for your aging parent can be one of the best decisions that you make for them in the course of your caregiver journey with them. Whether your parent has only minor to moderate needs or requires constant support and assistance, a senior home care services provider can be with your parent to ensure that they get access to exactly what they need. This will allow them to manage their challenges, limitations, and needs in the ways that are right for them while also encouraging them to maintain as much independence, activity, and fulfillment as possible as they age in place. As their family caregiver, this can give you tremendous peace of mind and reassure you that even when you are unable to be with your parent, they are still getting the best level of care and support.
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